We have given 100's of talks about Sexting, you’ll hear a pin drop when sexting is discussed. For starters, most Teenagers don't realise that Adult content is illegal. Naturally, teenagers have a huge appetite for Adult Content, which is how we refer to 'pornography'. It is so hard for Teachers, Parents to have this talk, Sexting is our most requested internet safety talks for Senior schools. Bookings Enquiry
The main purpose of the Talks is to explain the consequences, making Students aware of the effects on their future, careers, interests, relationship. What does Sexting mean, it is a combination of sex and texting, known as sexting. Kids have been texting suggestively to each other since the late 1990s. It's not new, it's just much more explicit and graphic now obviously.
We have to be direct, honest, make an impact. It needs to be as the aim is to prevent them from experimenting with cameras, phones and filming themselves. Then telling the straight out NOT to ever share it with anyone online. If they film sex, private parts to delete and forget about it forever. Some things can't be put back in the bottle.
This is one of the reasons we do Talks in the first place. Most parents just can't talk to kids in this way about this topic, somewhat like our Parents. The best way is a combination of asking about Sexting, and waiting for a response. If you are very lucky they will talk about it and you will be able to warn them gently about the consequences.
They are much more likely to ignore us from embarrassment rather than intentionally. Start again another day, make it clear this is a conversation that is going to happen. It would be humiliating if "something very private about you were shown or sent to someone else” is a good starting point.
Sadly, there are many examples in the media, and most kids will know from experience of examples where images and videos went viral only to ruin a career, a relationship, or a reputation. We can use these stories can be a great opportunity to talk with your teen about sexting.
Make it very clear, ‘that you show me yours and I will show you mine’ is too expensive a game. Fun at the time, but a disaster afterwards. Teenage relationship end, emotions run high, and pictures get distributed. Make sure your kids understand that most likely this picture will be shared and the people doing the sharing will be their friends.
Sexting normally takes place on Snapchat.
In our Talks, we use real examples, to drive this message home to Students, Young Adults, the impact on mental wellbeing, friendships, jobs, college and careers. Get through School and College without incident, that's the message. Mistakes will happen and you can recover from them too.
Schools, Colleges even Employers often mention sexting in connection with cyberbullying. People who sext usually feel mocked, coerced, or solicited— bullied into the behaviour and bullied because of the behaviour. Our most-read ever Online Reputation
No, the advent of the iPhone smartphone in 2007 was a gamechanger, kids are now viewing Pornography (sometimes extreme) as young as 8 years of age. Girl and Boys are exchanging videos, images and or live streaming which is easily done on Instagram or Snapchat as young as 11 years of age. Most 11-year-old kids or 12-year-old kids own a smartphone so they all have the capacity. Most parents have not implemented Parental control. As a result, we are doing the sexting talk in an age-appropriate fashion from 11 years of age only at the request of the School, Parents, Teachers, Head of School. Kids Talk Page
As kids approach puberty, we talk about changes in their body, relationships, and sexuality— teaching them about risks and how to avoid them. Telling kids about sexting important. Your kids will need to know why NOT to sext and what to do if they feel that someone is pressuring them into it.
Even if the image, video, or text was only meant for one person, once it's been sent or posted, it's out of their control. Frequent conversations in small doses are more effective than just one long, boring, threatening lecture about not sexting and staying safe on the Internet.
Being a parent and not a friend to your kids develops safety, appropriate use, and texting boundaries. As new relationships develop, talk about respect and spending face to face time with their friends. This forms a good foundation for healthy boundaries, self-respect, and safety you want to instil in them.
Why do they feel compelled to offer sexual content or to ask for it? Are they being pressured by friends? Do they feel like they need attention and is that attention healthy?
Keep talking about the above gently. Conversations like this should occur throughout kids' lives, not just when problems arise.
It might be pretty tempting to just shut down your teen’s phone when they come home from school. Doing so could end in mistrust and result in your teen hiding more from you than before.
Parental control software monitors and limit when and what websites or apps your child can access. Keeping up with what your child is doing online and setting some of your boundaries with them can protect your family.
Contact us, for more information or to book an internet safety talk for kids in your school.
Check out our article about Online Reputation. Safety Guidelines – What parents need to know about Snapchat
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